Engage yourself in the process. Don’t just observe. Let Christ center the group.
 

Tell your own story. Emphasize experience over analysis.
 

Listen with your heart. Receive feelings and facts as given. Judge not.
 

Model by doing. Be vulnerable, open, affirming.
 

Give no advice!
 

Share time equally.
 

Honor the right to pass.
 

Practice confidentiality. Keep stories contained in the group.
 

Exercise your power to bless! Call forth one another’s gifts.
 

Be accountable for your own growth.